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Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Mistakes

As humans, it is in our nature that we do make mistakes here and there. It is unavoidable. Sometimes your actions effects other people regardless if you do it for yourself or not. What you do, What you say, will lead to consequences. In this world, there are those who accepts other peoples negativity, lacking, imperfection. They do not simply judge a person based on their bad traits. 

Smoking
Drugs
Gay
Lesbian
Homo
Convict
Sex addict

Society nowadays sangat senang meletakkan label-label keatas seseorang itu. Let me ask you, is it fair to judge a person from their mistakes? Of course not, although it can be said as a normal reaction to be scared or afraid of them but as for me, as long as they don't disturb you or crosses your line is fair enough. Apa mereka buat keatas diri mereka sendiri itu hak masing-masing. Thats between them and God but for us, being a part of the human race, we should be nice if they are nice to us. Don't need to be all HUHA and create MUMBO JUMBO drama if they approach you. 

Open your eyes and see it clearly

I always try my very best to be perfect yet of course I still make mistakes along the line. From those mistakes, I see how I'm being judged. How they think of me. How they use it against me. Only looking at one tiny little black spot in me they use it as a tool of winning. I find it really unfair. How can you act so immaturely towards me because of my mistakes. Mistakes that I unintentionally did. I didn't do it on purpose. People learn from mistakes, I do. That is how we grow into a better person. Don't we?

'Forgive and Forget'

There were times when I failed to be there for my lover. There were times when I do stupid things when we broke up. There were times I said hurtful words to my family and friends without considering the consequences. I guess we all grow out of it. I'm not trying to find an excuse for my wrong doings, I do admit the fact I did it. It's just that people deserves chances to prove their worthiness. Don't they?

I wish I can state my point of mind out loud where people would actually listen and understand me. I think if all of us truly believe in this way of thinking, most of the major issues that we're facing in this world all this while will be solved. LOL so ambitious but like what they said

'Shoot up high so if you fall, you will be among the stars'
(main hentam je cakap lol)

Lesson Learned.

7 comments:

Raihana Izzati said...

hmm..pyh kot.

coz yeah I know d cliche saying.

"forgiv & forget"

but most of d time,,

people only forgiv.but never forget d bastard's name.

wasnt easy.hoho

sori.lupa bg salam.
Assalamualaikum..=)

chekuduks bacee said...

i agree...jika barang siapa berkata 'orang skrang ini ramai yg rosak' maka yg berkata demikian lah di kalangan yg rosak itu' ~hadith riwayat muslim

Aiman Ariffin said...

Hana: yeah nothing is easy in lifekan? oh well eh lupa nak balas salam. Wasalam hehe :)

Aiman Ariffin said...

chekuduks: hehe kan?! thanx for agreeing :)

chekuduks bacee said...

welcome....keep on writting! i love ur blog...impress org yg cm u blaja oversea tp still kuat ciri2 muslim...hihi

Aiman Ariffin said...

Chekuduks: waaaaaaaaaa tq! I appreciate that :D I will try my best. thanx again

chekuduks bacee said...

no biggie~=)