Monday, November 14, 2011


Bismillah Al Rahman Al Rahim,

Kadang-kadang aku tertanya-tanya, kenapa seseorang itu ada blog? Then it led to the question what is the purpose of a blog? Some use it as a medium for financial gain (advert semua bagai) some use it as journals, where they write about their everyday routines, their encounters, some event that they want to keep as memories. Some use it sebagai tempat untuk mengadu segala masalah, resah dan gelisah, sakit dan pedih yang tertanam di hati masing-masing. Some use it to gain attention, popularity. No I'm not joking about this group of bloggers. Yes these people sanggup tu visit blog by blog giving the most ridiculous comments or messages. Sometimes those msgs are not even related to the posts that I write. Manusia. haih. 

Bagi aku, I write partly to empty my mind and to fill in my heart. Partly I write because I'm inspired and I want to inspire others. Sebenarnya ada segelintir bloggers bagi komen that my writings are emotional and I need to stop because I'm driving people away. I appreciate those kind of comments really but seriously? 

Let me make myself clear ya. A blog, for me, is like my zen, my niche, my zone, MINE. So I shall write, post, arrange it as how I want it to be. Kalau kau rasa blog ni sangat vain sebab penuh ngan gambar-gambar aku, then by all means just close it. I don't want to have a judgmental reader like you. Before judging by looks, please read my post then to be fair. Try to understand what I'm writing. 

Don't be afraid to show who you really are, because remember, as long as you are happy with yourself, no one elses opinion matters.

Secondly, emotional and deep those are two different words with different meaning. I usually be critical in whatever topic that I write on and I don't expect you to understand but at least have a sense of respect. In life, you need to be critical in everything that you can think of so you can understand better and be better. If you don't then I advise you to start. 

Never underestimate the pain of a person, because in all honesty, everyone is struggling. Just some people are better at hiding it than others.

Thirdly, those shoutout box on the right handside of the blog is meant to be a place where a blogger can interact with another blogger. Not to promote your post. Come on, even if you do want to promote, you've gotta do it the right way. Join those blogger groups in facebook or something. If you are a good writer, people, followers will come to you without you asking them to. So just sit back and chilL!

One thing you have to learn in life is that somestimes it's best to just sit down and shut up.

World peace lol! <3
btw kalau korang nak tahu an example of an inspirational writer, click on the link below :-)


Mutiara Bernilai said...


oh no. ini satu kejutan di pagi hari! saya langsung tak sangka yg kamu akan memasukkan saya di akhir ayat kamu :)

no la Aiman, its you that keeps inspired me. dan kamu jugalah org yg selalu menulis sesuatu yg at the moment berada dlm fikiran sy,,sesuatu yg sy critically thinked and u solved them with ur writing (without u knowing that).. seriously!

haha, saya teringat, kawan baik sy dulu pernah ingat awk ni abang sy, sbb kita hampir seiras,,n to be exact, kening n mata kita hampir sama,,mm, mungkin sbb tu kot, sikit2 ape yg awk tulis tu sy rs mcm awk menulis ape yg kat dalam hati sy.. :)


adeke yg komplen pasal gambar kamu?

forget it, this is your territory aite? islam pun x larang, kan?

Asrul "iLham" Sany said...

I think you should just do whatever makes you happy.

people will bitch, cause that's their nature.

p/s : Alter ego isn't necessary you want to hide. It's more about your personalities within yourself.


Sizzling Suzai said...

honestly i dont come here sooooo often kn so sorry dear..coz ive been busy writing than blogwalking..yup thats d reason of y im blogging at d 1st place! ^^ neway, i dun think being emotional in our OWN blog is wrong?! dats what it differentiate between the 'jual nama je' punyer blog ngan ours kn.hahhaha =))

t a u f i k said...

it's proven. you're writing to express, not to impress. keep it that way cuz trust me, those who left your blog wud be replaced by many others.

Geng Lepak said...

Tak semua orang sama, kalau dia tak suka, orang lain akan suka...This is your home, then its up to you how you r going to design..

know what, i keep reading your blog because of your writing...

Aiman Ariffin said...

Mutiara: yeke?! hehehe im happy to hear that my writing ada jugak inspire ppl haha. oh yeah. its so good to read your comment. baca banyak2 pun tak puas2 kekeke.

har yeke?! nak tgk gamba! :p

you're right. thank you mutiara!

Aiman Ariffin said...

ASrul: and I think as how you think hehe. Thank you :-)

p/s: ahhhh thanx for enlighten me! :-)

Aiman Ariffin said...

Suzai: ahh no worries. Not complaining about it all hehe. Yeah I second that! hehe thank you :)

Aiman Ariffin said...

Taufik: oh gosh I like that! write to express not to impress. Why thnk you!

Aiman Ariffin said...

Geng Lepak: :-) reading your comments put a smile on my face. Thank you really :)

Yunne Osman said...

i'm getting sick of all the promos on my shoutbox too. i'm considering of removing it permanently

Aiman Ariffin said...

Kak Nurul: kan. its like no point having it there sigh