Secrets can be a bitch sometimes. Especially when you found out that you bestest friend's lover cheated on him. Keeping it to yourself is already hard enough, telling is another thing.
Since I'm effing worried about my bestest friends bad performance in his studies, I decided to come clean with him so that he could just move on and focus in his studies since it should have been above anything else than that. I thought I was doing a good job as a friend but it turned out to be the other way round. I was slammed and assaulted. I tried to listen to his reasoning but I'm sorry, I don't see any sense in any of them. But one point that he made it clear to me was, he said I say things without thinking. As in, I give my opinion without thinking the consequences.
I don't understand. You see, I believe that I'm a simple kind of person. If any of my friends come up to me seeking advices, simple, I tell them honestly how I feel and what I would do about it. I try to make things as clear as possible for them to see the situation their in and the choices they can take. The thing is my friends, all this while, I NEVER say things like WHAT YOU SHOULD DO, HOW YOU SHOULD HANDLE IT. Never. I simply show them the path that they should consider. What ever choices they make, its up to them cause it's their call. Honestly I don't give a shit if the decision been made is bad or good. Its your choice. Just make your decision and I'll support you all the way. Doesn't matter if I like it or not.
So, I'm sorry if my opinions hurts you or your not happy with it cause that's how I feel about it and I'm not gonna run around the bush or lie. Take it, or leave it. It's ALL UP TO YOU! So please, don't come to me and tell me that I'm not understanding or anything like that. It's saddens when I even have to go through this. I mean, do I even need to explain this? Aishhh..............