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Sunday, May 31, 2009

Decide

Secrets can be a bitch sometimes. Especially when you found out that you bestest friend's lover cheated on him. Keeping it to yourself is already hard enough, telling is another thing.

Since I'm effing worried about my bestest friends bad performance in his studies, I decided to come clean with him so that he could just move on and focus in his studies since it should have been above anything else than that. I thought I was doing a good job as a friend but it turned out to be the other way round. I was slammed and assaulted. I tried to listen to his reasoning but I'm sorry, I don't see any sense in any of them. But one point that he made it clear to me was, he said I say things without thinking. As in, I give my opinion without thinking the consequences.

I'll show your options

I don't understand. You see, I believe that I'm a simple kind of person. If any of my friends come up to me seeking advices, simple, I tell them honestly how I feel and what I would do about it. I try to make things as clear as possible for them to see the situation their in and the choices they can take. The thing is my friends, all this while, I NEVER say things like WHAT YOU SHOULD DO, HOW YOU SHOULD HANDLE IT. Never. I simply show them the path that they should consider. What ever choices they make, its up to them cause it's their call. Honestly I don't give a shit if the decision been made is bad or good. Its your choice. Just make your decision and I'll support you all the way. Doesn't matter if I like it or not.

Which road you pick, I'll tag along

So, I'm sorry if my opinions hurts you or your not happy with it cause that's how I feel about it and I'm not gonna run around the bush or lie. Take it, or leave it. It's ALL UP TO YOU! So please, don't come to me and tell me that I'm not understanding or anything like that. It's saddens when I even have to go through this. I mean, do I even need to explain this? Aishhh..............

13 comments:

Zainal Afnan said...

well, tak apa lah. sometimes people just dont understand what others advicing them... its ok.. have lotsa friends like that too.. maybe one day, he will say this to you, "aku patut dengar apa yang ko ckp aritu... nyesal doe"

serious shit... :D

Aiman Ariffin said...

haha itu arh, INSYAALLAH.
hopefully they wud know to hear opinions and let the decision been made by themselves

Zainal Afnan said...

haha... yes yes... eh u have ym or msn?

kerolizwan said...

aiman
we're the good people here
something broken and you fix it up
which sometimes people don't know how to appreciate it
so let them be lah~

when something begins, you generally have no idea how it's goin to end
so its nobody's fault
so YES! we're the good people here (i repeat that as hell yeah we are kan..;)

and let's wish him well..
and the GOODLUCKS (it helps everytime)
because again, we are a people person..good ones!!!
LOL
puji diri sendiri tak hingat nih

hahahaha

Aiman Ariffin said...

lolz kerol i would like to think like that too

just hope i did the right thing. thanx ya :)

syazaza ;] said...

i think ur friend just cant accept the fact that he was cheated. i think what u did was right as a friend.

i mena, friends should be honest and help each other. guess ur friend just don't understand

axa*baixura said...

walk proud aiman..walk proud..

cos u did the right thing =)

Aliph said...

hey aiman
i know the whole story right
its normal to ur friend since he is in emotion breakdown
thats y he said something irrational (without thinking)
i may think that u did the right action but as for me
i let him stregthen himself by comforting not hurting

whatever going to happen
i'm sure ur fren will be fun
INTRODUCE HIM to ME
ROFL

Aiman Ariffin said...

syazaza, itula pasal. Hopefully he'll grow uplah

Aiman Ariffin said...

u think so Aza?
i hope so too. Stress dowh when it comes to this

Aiman Ariffin said...

thanx for the comment aliph

but abt the introducing tu tak payahla ok. hahaha

sebok je!

CarynBear said...

sob
don't scold me lar..
jus kidding
hehehe
miss you
tomoro exam ku
takut!

Aiman Ariffin said...

lol ure funny! mine coming up soon too babe

i takut too! bah