Sunday, June 7, 2009

Good & Bad

What is good? What is bad?

Each individual believe in their own perspective. I have friends who smokes. Straight-A Student. In the Dean's list. I have friends who drinks like mad at the same time friends that never fails to be there for me when I'm in need of help. Some friends do drugs but willing to go thru trouble for me. Some of them do things that you could not even imagine.

Today, I followed some of my friends to smoke. I look at each of them. All of them with no doubt are nice people, down to earth that I always have respect for. But why some people judge smokers so terribly? Nampak orang smoke je, terus label budak jahat. Maybe MOST of smokers are bad but isn't what you're doing is generalize? Is it fair for you to think that way? Why people stereotype? It's the soceity isnt it? The society pictures a good man with a good features, fair, tall, nice, kind bla bla. So what about some people that does not have those? Bad people?

For me, the most important question is, Who are you to judge?

When someone says that I'm selfish, cheater, jerk. I'll get soooo badly hurt. Not because of them, not because of the words. But because of how untrue it is. People judge without knowing the truth. Without trying to understand. Without listening. I hate being judged for things thats not right.

Sometimes I feel tired of being me. I feel like lettting myself loose. I'm so sick of worrying what people might think of me. Like it or not, we're living in a cruel world. Call me cheater call me liar call me selfish call me a bitch call me watever you want after this cause I won't feel hurt hearing it since I'm being one.

I'm done being nice


Aliph said...

YEAH! start being rebellious
i have no word to say, im not a mommy
btw "The society pictures a good man with a good features, fair, tall, nice, kind bla bla"??

THE SOCIETY pictures me!!!
god. good man (tick), good features (tick), fair (tick), tall (half-tick), nice (BIG TICK), Kind (double check n double tick)

kerolizwan said...

you're the GOooD guy

you have my vote


Blank Pages & Empty Dreams said...

don't listen to aliph!!
what ever it is..
it's not worth being bad..
Cuz if u wanna be bad..
i expect you to start killing sumone..

f a f a said...

the act of smoking itself isnt bad, its just the ingredients in the cigarette sticks are the one causing harm to the human body.

stereotypes and assumptions go way back in the 18th century, and for us who do not fit in, we do things that will make us fit in.

e.g people go to gym.

i mean, we all dont realize that we're doing things from the drive to fit in, we all dont realize that because its been embedded so much in our brains, that we think of it as second nature.

Aliph said...

its up to him la ami
he wants to be bad
but yeah....
aiman such a nice guy
i never wondering he doing bad stuff so don't talk bout killing ppl

btw. i like what fafa said
SMART girl she is

Aiman Ariffin said...

perasan betul aliph lol

Aiman Ariffin said...

keroll good to hear that haha

Aiman Ariffin said...

lolz not that bad as in criminal bad haha funnyla u nadjmi

Aiman Ariffin said...

yeah i see ur point. faaa i miss u
jom meet up. we need to talk

Aiman Ariffin said...

lol u think so aliph? lol

ariana said...

but it's people judgment, just let them alone lah. people right' to say what they want to say at their own risk of saying it, no? kkkkkkk. don't hell spend too much of limited-precious-time of life to think about it. scrap scrap scrap bad things

we all sometimes did judge people one sidedly too xD. sometimes it feels good though, oh. comforting urself by bitching about other hahaha

just remember that out of someone's flaw there's always his goodness. and at the opposite.

Aiman Ariffin said...

i get ur pt ariana. thanx :)

::::LAdY FAFA:::: said...

well,im dun ever say dat smoker is a bad guy...but

such a fool guy bcoz smoke will lead them to death!so what it's for???

thre's no benefit at all..hmmmm...

Aiman Ariffin said...

true,.. cudnt agree more. But dont u think its their DECISION and their problem to deal with themselves?