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Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Perpisahan



Tahu kah engkau apa itu perpisahan?

Bila kau ungkapkan kata-kata pengakhiran itu, maka tertutuplah pintu antara kita. Masing-masing memerlukan ruang dan masa untuk menerima the absence of each other. Kembali belajar untuk hidup berseorangan. Pahit, pedih, sakit, kecewa, duka, semuanya suka atau tidak perlu ditelan. Pada saat itu mungkin hidup ini sangatlah gelap disebelungi awan hitam. Bicarakanlah kata-kata penyedap hati, sebutlah kata-kata manis, semuanya tidak ada guna. Hati ini tidak mahu melihat dan tidak mahu mendengar. 

Mengerti kah engkau apa itu perpisahan?

Bila kau ungkapkan kata-kata pengakhiran itu, semuanya berubah. Kita tidak dapat menjadi seperti dulu. Those sweet Goodnight messages, those Goodmorning sweet messages, those memories, those histories, those melodies of love, semuanya berbeza. Setiap perkara yang kita bicarakan akan menjadi bahan api pergaduhan. Setiap perkara yang kita bincangkan hanya menyakiti hati dan perasaan masing-masing. Mahukah engkau hidup begitu? Dapatkah engkau lalui semua itu? 

Fahami kah engkau apa itu perpisahan?

Think before you say those killer words that would end a relationship because you may not know or probably forget how difficult it is to recover, to be able to walk alone again, to consume the bitterness, to sleep and wake up without feeling lonely.

Please understand what you're putting yourself into before making a move to end it.

"Sometimes the only thing that people see is what you did. When in fact, they should be looking at why you did it" - Myra Mirasol

10 comments:

Anisah Syahirah Ramlan said...

nice (:

Aiman Ariffin said...

Anisah: thanx :)

chekuduks bacee said...

one fine day kite akan tau 'the pain' adelah utk kebaikan kite sndiri~~~berlapang hatilah untuk setiap musibah :p ~ oohh syukran sye x ditakdirkan dgn die~ maybe u akan cmni nt..eheh!

Aiman Ariffin said...

Chekuduks: Ya ALlah, sangat2 menanti hari itu akan tiba haha. thanx babe ;)

Hidayah Sazali said...

Love this entry! Frankly, I'm facing quite the same situation here.
May happiness always be with you.
Oh, notice that you're pursuing your studies in UQ? Omg, that's my dream uni! Hopefully, in 5/6 years to come for Masters haha, wish you all the best dear ;)

Aiman Ariffin said...

Hidayah: Oh, im sorry to hear ure going thru the same thing too. Yeah currently im studying at UQ. really? u sure u wanna come here? haha wish u all the best too :)

Ruby Dane said...

aiman, your posts always touches my fragile heart. ahhh. hehehe. ;)

Aiman Ariffin said...

Ruby: really? thank u so much. that means a lot to me really :)

Anonymous said...

Hey chill!always remember this : Mr/Ms Wrong helps u decide what u want in a relationship :)

Aiman Ariffin said...

Ni mesti hana! haha i guess so